Derate The Hate
Bettering the world one attitude at a time. We did not create the hate, but together, we can 𝘿𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙖𝙩𝙚! In a world filled with divisiveness, and dominated by F.O.G. (Fear, Outrage & Grievance), it's time we find a better way to engage. That all starts with each of us as individuals. We cannot control all that we encounter within our day to day lives, or the environment in which we live, but we certainly have the ability and responsibility to control how we react to it. For me, it starts with gratitude and personal accountability. Take a listen and see if there is something here to help you in taking your part in turning down the hate. Welcome to the 𝘿𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙃𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙙𝙘𝙖𝙨𝙩...
Derate The Hate
He Wanted to Disappear: Now He's Seen Around the World - DTH Episode 307 with Brandon Farbstein
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What do you do when the world stares at you everywhere you go?
Brandon Farbstein was born with metatropic dysplasia — one of only 84 documented cases in human history. Growing up at 3’9" in a world that pointed, stared, and laughed, he reached a breaking point at 11 years old where he just wanted to disappear.
Then something shifted. Therapy. A chance encounter in an airport. A TEDx stage at 15. And a realization that his pain wasn’t his prison — it was his purpose.
Today, Brandon Farbstein is a Gen Z powerhouse speaker, author of Ten Feet Tall and A Kids Book About Self-Love, a champion of two Virginia anti-bullying laws, and a newly appointed member of the ProHuman Foundation Board of Advisors.
In this episode, Wilk and Brandon talk about:
• What it’s really like to grow up with a condition most doctors have never seen
• The moment at 11 that became a turning point — and how therapy changed everything
• The airport encounter that launched his speaking career at 14
• Why self-love isn’t a buzzword — it’s a survival skill
• Why your circle of influence doesn’t have to be the size of LA to matter
• The ProHuman Foundation’s mission and how YOU can be part of it
Your story matters. Your platform doesn’t have to be big. It just has to be real.
Learn more about and connect with Brandon Farbstein in the full show notes for this episode at www.DerateTheHate.com.
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